Our lives have been turned upside down this week as we have lost somebody who meant the world to us. The only things that have made us feel better have been the wonderful emails, texts, phone calls and cards with messages of how John touched everyone’s lives.
Please use this page to post your comments, memories and stories of John.
John was one of the good guys. He loved his wife. He loved his boys. He loved life. Everything he did, he did with a passion. His sharp wit and quick mind often left us exhausted. Always the first to offer his help. Whatever needed doing – John was up for it. Soon there will be a new little Risk on the scene. How sad that John will never know that special experience of holding his grandchild for the very first time. But I know the Risks. I know there is enough love to go around.
Miss you John. x
Arthureen, I was saddened when I received word of John’s passing. He was a good friend and colleague. John was an individual with a keen and witty mind. He was able to tie these unique and rare traits together in both the social and business worlds. I feel honored to have not only known John as a friend but also to have worked with him at Gillette. During my years of knowing John, I never heard a harsh word spoken about him. This is the highest tribute a person can receive while living on this earth. Needless to say, John will be greatly missed.
Carol and my love go out to you and your sons.
Richard Crane
Fountain Hills, Arizona
I am proud to be able to call John one of my closest friends. I am going to miss our little chats.
I first met John and Authereen when I was 22. I soon found myself wrapped up
in their family which was full of fun and love. John was a vibrant, full of naughtiness and cheeky chap, he made me laugh so much. The day he brought all the girls at our tennis club a red rose each because we had won
our final just showed that he thought about others always. That memory has
stayed with me always. We ran road races together and he was always so
encouraging. A sincere and very special husband, father and friend. We will
miss you John. You will never be forgotton.
Kim
John, an irreplacrable friend.
How we will miss your boundless energy and all round enthusiasm. Always so thoughtful, helpful and entertaining. So quick witted and funny. We feel very privileged to have had the chance of being able to spend so much time in your company.
Still trying to get our heads around it all.
Ian and Denise
What a lovely man I have known for years and Jules only really got to know comparatively recently. As soon as Jules mentioned that kayaking would be his new sport, John was immediately supportive and showed him the way. Always there to help in any way, so kind and gentle, an example to us all. We will miss him hugely now he is at peace in our world.
I met John first time in 1998 as I joined our Gillette management meeting in Germany.
After that we had several meetings together. As I remember sometimes we visited the Saalburg castle built by the Romans and he told me about the Hadrian’s Wall in England.
Next what I remember was a meeting at the Thames River and we had a little boat trip together.
I will miss him especially his speeches with a special kind of English humor.
RIP John.
I first met and played football with John in 1977. He was a brilliant sportsman and above all brought humour to the changing room. I remember one game against Old Albanians (at home) we were being slaughtered 1-0 (Stanbridge was having a blinder for once). One of their players went down with an injury to the face – the sponge was called for (several times). To which John piped up “it’s being repaired!” Hilarious. My condolences and regards to John’s family and close friends, Adrian (Cutters) OIFC
Always enjoyed John’s company; his dry wit and sharp humour brought a smile to my face every time we met. Played football with him many times and his ‘Beckenbauer’ style always made him stand out but I must say that I did get a few sharp comments in my ear a few times when I didn’t exactly carry out his instructions! A sad, early loss of a quality man in all respects. Our thoughts with all the Riskies. Rob & Lesley.
We are all shocked and saddened by John’s passing. Such a kind man with an amazing sense of humour who had us in stitches on many a Saturday afternoon at Cricket. Moreover, John’s love for his family is what we shall remember most and the bursting pride for his boys. Our thoughts are with you all at this very sad time. We will both be honoured to be at the funeral to celebrate John’s life. With much love.. Krish and Lorraine Riminton xxx
Athureen and John were our best friends during our five year stay in GB. John’s humor and kind heart were endless. I’ll always remember our wedding ceremony, when my earring dropped to the floor making a tinkling sound. John quickly quipped, “Dick, couldn’t you afford a better ring setting?” This was one of so many moments of laughter and love shared with special friends. Without doubt, a fitting testament is that John made all his friends laugh and smile. He will be greatly missed by all, not only in GB but worldwide.
Our thoughts and prayers are with Arthureen, Paul, and David during this most difficult time.
With much love and friendship,
Carol and Dick Crane
So sorry to hear. We will miss him. Always friendly faces, looking so happy. lots of love!
Dear Athureen. It is with a deep sense of shock that I heard of John’s sudden death. The pain of you and your family at this unforseen tragedy must be unbearably sore at this time. As one of his many friends around the world, my thoughts are with you.
My memories of John are drawn from his long career at Gillette which I shared for some 20 years. His hallmark in those early days was his infectious humour; a talent that brought him many admirers. It was also a guise though, for an underlying intellect, which would evntually be recognised and take him to the upper echelons of senior management. Even then, his humour would always be to the fore. As a very close friend in those days I was also an admirer of his sporting talents and remember well the fun I had playing with, and against him at football – the Scots vs England. Thanks for the memories, John. You will be greatley missed by your many friends.
Arthureen, I was so shocked and saddened by John’s passing. I will never forget the kindness and friendship both he and you showed me when I joined Gillette all those years ago. His sense of humour and fun were very special and it was impossible to be around him and not have a smile on your face. My thoughts are with you all. Helen
Dear Arthureen, Paul and John,
Like many others, I was shocked and saddened by the news.
John and I were peers and closely aligned for a number of years in our roles at Gillette UK and South Boston.
John always found a way to make difficult challenges seem less difficult…
He loved Gillette the way so many of us did during those glorious years.
John’s humor and ability to promote and strengthen our global allliances made the Atlantic seem so much smaller.
Peace be with you John…….we will remember you, always
Bob Curran – Massachusetts
Arthureen,
I was so sorry to learn of John’s untimely passing. Our paths crossed many times during my (27) years at Gillette, I always found John friendly, patient and helpful with a subtle and dry sense of humour.
You and I played tennis together many times in my early days at Gillette (late ’70′s).
Like me, John was a true Gillette man and I know he will be sadly missed by many. My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.
With kind regards,
Roger.
Roger Grime.
My deep condolances to Arthureen and the boys.
John was in South Africa when I joined Gillette. I worked with him, and then for him on and off over the next 27 years. His wit and humour kept the department going – through difficult times, overdue projects and non-working computers (mainframes as well as PCs). The puns came quickly and unforced – when a member of staff couldn’t make the football match because of a hole in his shoe, John’s immediate remark was “Was that his sole excuse?”
He was one of the Gillette family, and his death comes as a surpise and a shock. I’m sure he will be remembered for a long time. R.I.P.
Roland.
Authereen, this is another message from our family. Tony, my mum, Luke and Max looked at the photos of John and you at my 50th birthday a year ago.
You looked so happy and content, you were such a lucky couple to have spent so many years together happy and fulfilled. God Bless you all. xxxxxxxx
How we will all miss Johns enthusiasm for life and razor sharp wit, he was one in a million and will be sadly missed by so many people .
To all of John’s family and friends.
I played football with John for Wayfarers in the mid-late 1970s and will always remember the friendly welcome that he gave me as I was thrown as a skinny 17 year old among many a football shirt which when worn looked like it was concealing a very large turtle from the Galapagos Islands. And his dry wit. Having not seen him for perhaps in excess of 30 years, it was great to see him again in May at Wayfarers’ 50th anniversary.
I know that John was held in high regard at Wayfarers and it is clear from the postings here that he was an exceptional human being. That he has slipped his moorings so tragically early will leave pain and hurt for so many. May memories of John help to ease the gap he has left.
John Butler
As with all before, I was shocked and saddened by this terrible news. Many happy memories of working (and playing) with John at Gillette from 1979 onwards. He made even the dullest of meetings lively and entertaining, sometimes irreverent – I recall feeling like school kids in the back row of class when John caught a new seam of humour and shared it with his nearest neighbours….. trying to suppress fits of laughter. As well as his sharp humour, which kept everyone on their toes, he kept pushing everyone to see things in a different and better way with a healthy impatience and without bias or self interest [a rare trait].
John made these times more fun, funnier, successful and special. Thoughts are with Arthureen, sons, family and all who feel the sense of loss.
Jim
Dear Arthureen, Paul and David,
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. John was such a lovely man. He was very highly thought of by all the Sextons. I’m grateful that he always made Rich and I feel so welcome at Ottershaw and that he was always so friendly and kind towards everyone. I hope you are all holding up ok at this difficult time. Our thoughts are with you. Michael Sexton
Dear Arthureen,
We only met John a few times, but were both struck by his warmth and sense of fun. He was so game to join in the YMCA dance in S. Africa. A special chap.
Thinking of you at this very sad time. We are sure your family and friends will be the strength you need.
Jayne and Huw (Sue’s sister and brother-in-law)
John was a unique and lovely man – always caring, good humoured and looking for the next exciting challenge – he will be sadly missed. Thinking of you all with lots of love xxxxxx
As one of John’s many cousins (our grandparents had 17 grandchildren) my memories of him obviously go back a long way. John, my brother Keith and I were the eldest of the cousins. So school holidays and weekends saw the three of us together, a ball of some description never far away. I remember in later years telling John that I had taught him everything I knew about football. His immediate response was “that couldn’t have taken very long!”. So typical of John – very quick, very funny and, although the joke was at someone else’s expense, entirely devoid of malice. The whole extended family will miss his company and his humour at future gatherings.
We welcomed Arthureen into our midst when she came from South Africa many years ago. Our hearts go out to her and the boys at this sad time. We will all miss John terribly. Why, because he gave so much of himself to his family and friends and we owe him so much.
Shocked and Saddened by the news . I played many a game of football with John at Old Is. John’s sense of humour was legendry and always looked forward to the away games as John always had a nice comfortable company car that would be guaranteed not to breakdown on the way to the game! He will be sadly missed!
In recent years I only saw John at the Annual Vets match between Old I’s and Nortumberland. Next year’s game will certainly be a lesser occasion with out him!
Marc Curant
RIP John, let’s hope Heaven is ready for your wit!
Arthureen and Family,
Wendy and I were shocked and saddened to hear the dreadful news. Our thoughts are with you all at this incredibly difficult time.
We feel honoured and privileged to have known John and to have counted him as a friend. During the many years I shared with John at Gillette we worked and played hard, laughed and at times nearly cried together and yet I can’t recall a single cross word between us. It is no exaggeration to say that I would not be where I am today without John’s guidance, coaching and support. And, to this day, I can’t look at a mango without thinking of John and smiling (it’s a long story!).
We will miss him so much.
Dear Arthureen and family, so sad to hear about John. He gave me my big break at Gillette and I will never forget him for this although it was a massive legacy to take on. I have missed him since his retirement and will be with you next week.
Linda and I hadn’t known John for long, but during this time he made a big impact on us both.
My abiding memory of John were the two YMCA gigs we performed, one in South Africa, and one, more recently in England together with the dress rehearsal at Sue and Rick’s. Whilst the ladies went off for Tennis, the four of us rehearsed YMCA three times though we were more interested in watching the test cricket! However John, being the consummate professional spent much of the afternoon (rather than skiving with the rest of us) in the garden plugged into his Ipod listening to YMCA and improving his moves!
We will miss you John, a great guy!
Our thoughts are with Arthureen and her family…
It was an honour and a privilege to have known John albeit for a very brief period. His wit and charm were something to aspire to.
John’s ability to handle difficult situations as if they were mere wrinkles in an otherwise perfect day left most people basking in his wake. His black belt 9th dan master’s skill at putting into prose a speech for a simple leaving do was legendary. I am sincerely saddened to hear about the loss of such a great man yet happy to have been one of the luck few who had the opportunity to have known him. REST IN PEACE.
Alkesh
I have so many happy memories of John from my days working with him at Gillette. John taught me so much and was was undoubtedly one of the most influential men in my life and I count myself very fortunate to have know him. I am in Texas so will not be able to attend his funeral but my thoughts and prayers will be with Authureen, Paul, David and the rest of John’s family.
Arthureen, many condolences to you and the family. John was a true Gent and a good mate, will be missed by all. My favorite memory was a league game played in Ealing on the Saturday after we had drawn a Cup Final on the Friday night, it was hard in those days! and as you can imagine we were all a bit shabby. Half way through the second half when the hangovers were really kicking in, John told me to leave a shot. When I looked at him with the ball nestled in the bottom corner he simply said, Sorry saw two balls, chose the wrong one!
Rest in Peace
Roy & Kathy, Dubai
So full of life, passionate about so many things, a source of so much fun and laughter, never ending wit, a great friend- John was a real one off.
We hope St Peter was ready when John arrived with his first heavenly quiz!
So much love and so many thoughts to Arthureen, Paul and David at this terrible time.xxxxx
I had the immense pleasure of playing football with John at OIFC and can only repeat the comments of others. He was always wonderful company and had a wonderfully positive approach to life. He will be sadly missed.
Arthureen, our condolences to you and your family.xx Dolly
It was very sad indeed to hear that John had so unexpectedly passed away and my thoughts are with you at this difficult time
I first met John when Gillette bought Duracell and we came up, carrot-crunchers, from the sticks to meet the new guys. John immediately engaged with us in his friendly, respectful and sensitive way, and through my Isleworth years, he became both professional colleague and personal friend. I so much enjoyed his company: his quick intelligent wit, his daft stories and overall, his generosity of spirit that you couldn’t fail to feel
I’ve so enjoyed meeting up with him latterly for lunches and drinks. John: athlete, humourist, friend.
Was devastated to hear the sad news about John. Played many a game of football with John for OIFC and his presence in the team always made the afternoon more pleasurable whether we won or lost. A true gent with a great sense of humour he will be so very much missed.
My thoughts are very much with his much loved family and friends
Like everyone on here, I was deeply saddened to hear the news about John. I knew John for many years at my time at Gillette and have many happy and memorable memories working with him in our IT dept. He was always a great help to me and I was very fortunate to have known him. John was also a very keen sportsman and was always looking forward to our Wednesday evening’s in which was our Gillette football night where he loved playing and always seemed to be on the winning side due to his great ability. He will be truly missed by all!
John was without a doubt the most graceful player that I ever played alongside back in the old Wayfarer days, and the most liked ! The mould has most certainly been broken and his kind will never be seen again! I am so pleased that I and others attended the reunion in White Waltham only recently on the 11th October, old friends having a great evening, laughing and joking about the old days, and each others antics. Rest in peace John, and thanks for the memories mate. Gary x
Dear Arthureen and family
So sorry to hear the sad news about John, a very respected friend. We enjoyed his sense of humour and relaxed style. He will be greatly missed. Our thoughts are with you.
We were both born in the famously cold winter of 1947.
We were at Isleworth Grammar together.
We then both lined up for the Old I’s through four decades!
John was the most cultured,consistent and fairest player I had the honour to wear the shirt with.
A great sense of humour and a very fine chap indeed.
Totally gutted by news of John’s sudden passing.
My thoughts are with you at this saddest of times.
Am writing this whilst Anths and Suzie are in SA; I am sure that Anths will leave her own message later.
John was a one-off and my life has been immeasurably richer for knowing him. I still can’t believe that he and I will never again valiantly lose on the tennis court against our better halves; that he and I will never again argue about how many religions there are in the world; that I will never again be able to try to add peas to his dinner order; that I will never again laugh at the quickest wit (and worst puns) that I have known. John’s infectious enthusiasm for life and his unfailing willingness to help others has taught me a lot, and I thank him for it.
All of our thoughts, love and best wishes are with Arthurene, Paul and David at the moment.
John probably hung his head many times in our company as he watched us trying to keep up with the puns! He had an almost Goon like (look it up children!) ability to use language in ways that were not intended. When you finally caught up with what he had said, you realised how clever and how fast he was. We variously partied; tennis’d; ran ½ marathons and laughed together. His enthusiasm for life was infectious and we will always remember party games with labels stuck to clothing on front or back that likened you to a film star – but left you clueless as to who you were meant to be! His eclectic love of wood, rivers, 60’s music and so much more was only overshadowed by his love of Arthureen and the boys. The only possible consolation is that he lived life flat out, laughed through life and did so much. We will all miss him. Francis, Kate Hannah and Zac
John was a very special man.
A real Gentleman with great charm and wit. A superb footballer.
I like many had the pleasure of being on the pitch with him at Old I’s and trying to keep up.Always first on the team sheet,first to the ball, first to spot a pass and first out of the changing room…..
He told me he played his first game for Old I’s in 1967….. a playing career spanning 5 decades. What an outstanding achievement amongst so many.
We will all remember John and with a smile.
My thoughts are with you all at this time.
Peter Lang.
John will be missed at Runnymede Runners having been a member for a number of years; not one to train with us every Tuesday and Thursday, but I know that he loved to race in our club colours.
If not racing he could be seen marshalling at races or just helping out at the relays or Staines 10k.
I and the other members will miss him and it has been our pleasure to run with him over the years.
Peter Collins
Chairman
I first met John in 1975 when I turned up as an enthusiastic sixth former to play for the Old I’s. It was immediately clear that John was an exceptional talent on the pitch and a great wit off it.
I remember a training session where one of our number had decided to stand on a couple of bricks whilst stretching, presumably to lengthen the stretch. John immediately decided that this was some new form of altitude training. Needless to say the bricks were never seen again.
More recently I came across him half way round the Cabbage Patch 10. We chatted about old times for a while and then I, as the younger man, decided I should press on and try for a time. As I collapsed over the line in a state of complete disarray John trailed in about 15 seconds behind looking as though he had just started.
He was an exceptional sportsman and one of the funniest people I have had the pleasure of knowing. He will be greatly missed.
My thoughts are with you.
Russ
Without doubt John was the most able and gifted footballer in any team for which I played at the Old I’s. Skilled in using both feet and always wanting to play the game in the right spirit, it was a pleasure to watch him pass and control the ball in every game he played.
He was, however, a most undemonstrative player on the pitch. Whether we won 5-0 or lost by the same margin, his approach and demeanour never varied, apart that is for one occasion on the top pitch.
We had a corner and John stole in at the far post to thump a bullet header into the net. A rarity, unique I think in his performances for the Old I’s. For once he could not contain his enjoyment of the moment, and continued his run for half the length of the pitch, fist raised in triumph to the sky, until he returned to his position at right back, ready to restart the game with his usual, dignified poise.
What a goal! What a player! But above all, what a gentleman.
Paul and I want to send our sincere condolences to both Arthureen and the boys. We were both truly shocked and saddened to hear of Johns passing.
I worked with, John at Gillette for many years. He always embraced a challenge with great humour and determination; whether it was winning our weekly 5-a-side football match, mastering Microsoft Project (and he was one of the very few who did) or migrating mainframes and servers. John never failed to acknowledge, a job well done; and was always so very generous with his own knowledge and experiences.
John was never one to simply sit back and manage projects; he always got involved. This was always recognised and appreciated by the team. He always listened, supported and encouraged us all; and in return he had our respect, admiration and loyalty.
He really was a wonderful man; a team mate to some, a great friend to many, and an inspiration to all.
He will be sadly missed
Paul and Carole Parker
Arthureen, Paul and David
So very shocked and saddened to hear of Johns untimely death. My heartfelt condolences to you.
John was unique, kind,generous and enthusiastic about everything in life and a great friend and colleague, he could lift your spirits in an instant with one of his witty comments.
We shared the occasional pub lunch in our retirement sharing news of our new hobbies. He never changed thank goodness.
God bless
Neville
I can remember the positivity that John used to radiate as he stepped out of his office at Gillette. Hopefully he has left a little of this sprinkled on each of us he touched & left behind. God bless, Ian
So sad to hear news of John’s death. Although only bumped into him 2 or 3 times in last thirty years I remember our happy schooldays together. We started at Isleworth the same day and he sat in the desk behind me. We were always playing football in our break times. I remember winning a tennis doubles tournament with him in the sixth form and with other friends meeting at each others houses and trying to learn how to play guitar. God bless you John.
Dear Arthy, Paul and David
We are so sad to hear of Johns passing. My earliest memory of you and John, when you came out to South Africa and stayed with us in Madeley Road and you bought us a HUGE compendium of games box, it lasted us throughtout our school days and longer.
I also remember when you and John came out to SA for the 1st time with Paul and we went to the Spur and had dinner with Uncle Mick and family. I think Paul was about 2 years old.
You both have done so much for our family, especially mom and dad. We are constantly thinking of you all.
lots and lots of love
Charles, Theresa, Gary, Christopher and Jonathan
Dear family,
I still can’t beleive that John has left us. I know all the kind words can’tmake your pain go away. We are all thinking of you and hope the day comes you will turn to us to help you through this difficult times.My thoughts are with you love Kathy
John was the year below me at IGS, and played as many years for the football club as I have for the rugby club, so we often saw each other in the bar but not on the pitch. However, we both played for the OIAFC vets in April. In old terminology, I played right half and John was right back. I asked John to tell me where I should position myself and his reply was “never more than ten yards from me!” He was real gentlemen with a dry wit, and will be fondly remembered. On behalf of me and OIRFC, our condolences to John’s family. Unfortunately, I shall not be able to attend the funeral. Best Regards, Tony
I was in the year below John at IGS but knew him mainly through the Old I’s. We played cricket together during the 70s when John’s fielding skills were readily apparent and although I played rugby I will always remember John for our frequent short conversations which for some unfathomable reason always seemed to take place in the spartan surroundings of the Old Boys toilets! The conversations always followed the same pattern on a Saturday evening: me – “Do you know any football scores John?” John – “1-1, 2 all, 3-2″ Thanks a lot John for those fond memories.
Dear Arthureen, Paul and David,
We were so shocked and saddened to hear about John. Although, we only saw him at a few social /family events, he always made us laugh with his dry wit and his unique ability to bring laughter to any occasion.
We are sadly unable to be with you on Friday, but our thoughts are with you and all the Riskies.
With our love
Carola,Mark and Holly
I am very sorry to hear about John’s passing.
I played football with him at Old I’s during the 90′s when I had just started playing there. He was a thoroughly nice guy – and you could always tell what a good player he had been in his prime.
Neil Bull
So shocked and saddened by this news. I had the good fortune to skipper John at Old I’s for a season or two late in his career. He was still a terrific footballer and played the game in a real Corinthian spirit. He could still have played at a higher level but dropped down, I think because he wanted to introduce David to the club and play in the same team. He was a pleasure to captain; always there on time and willing to help out with putting up nets etc. Although most of the rest of us were unfit to tie his bootlaces, he was never critical of his teammates. Indeed I never heard him say a bad word about anyone. Needless to say, the reverse is equally true. John was a real gentleman and, as others have written, a most amusing companion.
My thoughts go out to Arthureen, David and Paul.
Jerry Jolly
Dear Arthureen,
Words will not be sufficient – but I feel your pain. You and John are two very special friends. The Risks were always on my ‘hit list’ when I came to visit Anths and I was always disappointed that I couldn’t ever join you in Jeffery’s Bay. Teaching has limited time off!!!??? Be that as it may, the New year’s eve competition of eating dry cream crackers with no liquid to wash them down or wrapping the team in toilet paper – give me many chuckles when I look at the photos. My memories are of fondness, warmth and lots of laughter and I look forward to sharing them with you when I come over again. Take care of yourself during this time and know that you have MANY FRIENDS supporting you and who will care for you when you need it. My thoughts and prayers will be with you, Paul and David on Friday.
God Bless. Cal xx
Like many others on here I met John through the Old I’s Football Club.
A true gent, great footballer with sharp wit!
From time to time when we hear of the sad passing away of somebody it really hits hard and affects so many. This usually proves how popular and well respected that person was.
This is one of those such occasions!
My thoughts are with all the family at this sad time.
It was a pleasure meeting you John.
John was everything you would want in an uncle. Visits to his house meant great hospitality and plenty of fun in the form of murder in the dark and dress the terrorist. We will take away many happy memories of John at the family home.
We will miss him. Joe, Maddie, Charlie, Dan, Stella, Laura xxxxxx
Played my first games @ Old I’s as a 16yr old in the 5th XI with John & my Dad. Watching him glide around the pitch on the right hand side often making players many years his junior look very stupid was a great part of my footballing education. He always had a great touch & an unerring knack of making himself time & space on the ball which is a wonderful gift. A true gentleman of the game on & off the field. An honour to have donned the famous Red jersey with you sir R.I.P.
Thrill of getting kayaks on the car for some of the best days of our lives.
Spread sheets, laminated maps by the score.
The adventure. Smiles, laughs, half sensible chats, even silence.
“I love the first time the kayak hits the water”
“This is just stunning”
“Tranquility like we have never known”
In any slightly dangerous situation we always rely on one another – usually John looking after David.
Except one occasion when John capsized in a fast flowing river. I retrieved his kayak to which John’s response was “thought you would have emptied it first”
“That beer will go down well”
We enjoy the beauty of many rivers, streams and sea.
The biggest challange – kayaking the Thames. Starting at the source in a few inches of water.
Always finishing the day with a fun evening with our lovely support team.
Every paddle is always one of the best paddles.
Always the best day with my best friend.
Dear Arthureen,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have such wonderful memories of working with John.
He was such a great person to be around. John always made me feel welcome. He was always, and I really mean always, quick with a funny comment or insight… his sense of humour was infectious. More importantly he also did not hesitant to give people, or perhaps it was just me, some “good advice”, the advice you did not want to hear, but you really needed to know…
My years in the U.K. were a special time and John was a big part of that.
In one of his few weak moments I even convinced John to let me bowl to him on a makeshift pitch. Unfortunately it only took one unintended American style fastball full toss for John to declare, “That’s enough of that, let’s do something else.” I was one and done as a bowler.
John made every meeting, business trip, or hallway encounter entertaining and fun. I would give a lot for just one more ‘Project Update’ with John.
Bill Looney – Boston
I was so sad to hear of the untimely death of John. He was a staunch Isleworthian and a prominent member of the football club. I send my sincere condolences to his family. Malcolm Brittain
Denise has already posted a comment, but after a few more days trying to get used to idea of not enjoying John’s company again I feel the need to add my own. But where to start ? His remarkably quick wit ? His tremendous enthusiasm for everything ? His neverending willingness to help ? His YMCA starring role ? Not only will I miss him here, but possibly even more so when we return to South Africa, where he was our travel agent, our guide, our IT consultant; I could go on. Given the gap we now have in our lives I cannot even imagine where Arthureen, Paul and David are, but they must know that they have our love and support when they want them. A wonderful guy.
I knew John in the 1970s and early 1980s. A great footballer , fantastic wit and above all a true gent ! John you have left us all with so many great memories … thank you for that ! Our thoughts are with Arthureen and the family at this difficult time. Regards, Bim Hundal
I first played with John in the early 1980’s when he was still a first team player. John was often reluctant to pass the ball to anyone he didn’t think was worthy of a pass. Not a problem in the first team but more so if he was helping out one of the lower sides.
Fortunately, the first time we played together, myself at centre half and John at right back, I won a header early in the game, mainly because the forward was about five foot six and not up for an aerial battle. Unchallenged, I called John’s name and, by pure fluke, the ball landed at his feet. He gave a quick nod and, from that moment on, I was crossed off the list of people not worthy of a pass.
He was always appreciative that in his last few playing seasons, he helped win the Vets Cup under myself and reached a cup semi final under Jerry Jolly so ended his regular football career as it had always been – in style.
He always enthusiastically supported the annual Old Isleworthians versus Northumberland reunion match and slotted in looking like he was still playing regularly, unlike many of us who actually were.
Every day we have looked through the lovely messages written by so many friends and family. I know that Peter will be giving his tribute on friday, so I would like to add a few words myself.
I married into the Risk family 34 years ago, and John was always the same towards me – cheerful, funny, welcoming and full of new ideas.
I will miss him showing me a new book about local history or different woods, or pointing out the stars in an African night sky.
I will miss drinks on the patio, marvelling at his latest wooden creation, and even learning why yew trees were planted in churchyards! I will miss his legendary quizzes, and the party games that he constantly devised and that our children loved.
I will miss his intelligence and wit, his endless enthusiasm, his kindness and generosity, and his pride in his dear family.
Arthureen Paul Jo David and Claire my love to you all xxxxx
Dear Arthureen and family, like everyone we were so saddened to hear about John’s passing. We spent several enjotyable evenings together and it was always a pleasure to be in his company and share in his humour and enthusiasm about almost everything! Our thoughts are with you.
Carol and I were so sorry and shocked to hear the news and our thoughts are with you all.
John and I went back a long time at Gillette. I was a user of his services, a team colleaque, a member of his MIS team, a friend and so much more. Oh so many memories. The social occasions were so special too. Carol remembers the special one in London too.
God Bless.
Played my first game with john in 1978..Mac was captain… John wore the Number 2 shirt with pride, passion and true wit. Dressing room banter, shower room banter and bar talk will remain a part of John’s make u for me. Can still see his close control on the deck, we wont mention his heading ability suffice to say a complete gentleman on and off the pitch and a great friend. I hope they are ready for you up there John, you will make them smile…RIP………………Pez
Very sorry to hear this sad news. I played with John in the late 70?s- great player and as many have said his dressing room wit was legendary. Thoughts and best wishes go to Arthureen and family.
Like everyone else who has posted here, we were truly shocked and extremely saddened by the news of John’s passing. Nearly two weeks later, it is still very, very hard to believe.
I was lucky enough to not only play many times with John for OIFC but also to be in attendance at various family functions over the years because John’s Brother, Peter, is married to my Sister, Trudy (whose beautiful post you can read above).
One of the funniest things I have heard in my life (and it still makes me laugh out loud) was said by John at a gathering at John’s parent’s house in Hounslow West back in about 1977. I had my German pen-friend, “Helma” with my at this particular event and John’s dear Mum Doreen kept calling him “Helmet”.
After she’d called him this a few times, John said: “Will someone please tell Mum to stop calling him ‘Helmet’ or he’ll think she’s taking the pith”.
That is pure comedy brilliance and John was probably the funniest person I’ve ever met – and the best right-back of course.
Arthureen, Paul, David – our thoughts and love are with you at this very sad time. I will see you on Friday xx
It has taken some time to write as I have been to upset and shocked.
I first met John when I was 13 when we all got together every day in the holidays and after school to play football in Beaversfield Park Hounslow West. We had such great times and decided to form a football club in 1961 and we called it Beaversfield Park FC.
After playing lots of friendley games we decided to join a league and were excepted in the West Middx Sunday Football League in the bottom division and under Johns captaincy we rose up the league to the Premier Division and how proud John and all of us were.
John worked tirelessly helping me arrange Wayfarers 50th Anniversary and what a great day it was for him and his brother Peter to play in the match and beat the present side.
I will always remember all the times we had and our reunion down the Bee Hive Pub on the 13th October were John really enjoyed himself.
God rest mate and I will sign off the way you always expected me to.
Yours in sport
Chris
Over the years that I have played for Old I’s, I was not always on the same teamsheet as John. On occasions that this happened, I would walk into the dressing room and await the customary quip. This was always good natured and he could reel off several ribbings of various players before we took to the pitch.
He struck me as someone who lived like to the full, and in that respect I am envious of him and could take a leaf from his book. RIP.
Arthureen our deepest sympathy for all of our loss, John was a heck of a good “Ballie”, we only saw him a few times but he made enough of an impression to never be forgotten.(In a good naughty way) Our thoughts will be with you tomorrow, and we are sorry we won’t be there. All our love Bruce and Trish.
Oh yes we will have a few drinky poos for him tomorrow nite, I am sure he would like that. Lol Bruce and Trish
I only knew John as a colleague in Gillette but from the other tributes it is clear that I saw but a small part of the man.
My abiding memory of JR will be one of seeing him pacing up and down in his office, wearing a look of rapt concentration, while he assembled his thoughts before replying to some mail or other. He always appeared to me to be the most organised and efficient of people, a characteristic I envied.
This passion for organisation became even more evident on an occasion, after I had retired, when our paths crossed outside the Gillette temporary offices in Brentford. I grumbled that, in spite of being retired, I never seemed to have time for the things that interested me – reading, guitar, visiting places of interest, and so on. JR replied that he had addressed this problem by assigning one day per week as a ‘hobby day’. I wasn’t at all surprised.
It is inevitable that it is only at times such as this that one actually realises the mark that another person has made on ones life. I’m sure that John made the most of his Hobby Days. I will bear him in mind as I try to make the most of mine.
My sincere condolences go to John’s family for their sudden and untimely loss.
It is two weeks since Jean and I left England to fly home to Australia. Sadly on the day we flew out John passed away and it was this tragic news that awaited us on our arrival home a few days later. I couldn’t believe it then and I can’t believe it now, but I am truly grateful I was able to spend time with John during my stay in the UK. John organised a truly memorable evening with past team mates of the Wayfarers football team of the 1960′s. It was a wonderful night spent reminiscing good times with great friends. John was one of a kind, a true gentleman and a man who made a difference to all of our lives. Thankyou John.
Jean was deeply touched by the get well card. Our sincere sympathy to Arthureen and all of John’s family and friends, we shall be thinking of you today. Love from Graham and Jean Morrison.
Such sad news – our sincere condolences to Arthureen and the boys from Bill and Steph and old friends at Thistleworth Club. Our thoughts are with you today.
As our lives progress we meet all sorts of characters whose personalities are memorable for many reasons.
There are very few people who have the sparkle and humour of John.
His ability to make you feel at ease, to make you laugh, to look forward to being in his company was remarkable and very rare, because he did it every time you were with him.
Everyone who has written has mentioned humour, wit, fun; this is how we must pay tribute to this lovely man by in some way trying to continue his infectious way of life.
My thoughts and condolences go to all of John’s family and many friends, and to my partner Jill, John’s sister.
John you were such a lovely and loving man. We will miss your sharp wit and infectious positivity. Our fondest memories of you were not only the hilarious Christmas tennis parties you and Arthureen hosted with all the party games,fancy dress and of course the deadly serious tennis competition. But the occasion when you and Arthureen generously offered the use of the place at Plett and insisted on giving us a thorough ‘briefing’ inclusive of maps, pictures and curious sketches re road layouts ! We hosted a dinner of spaghetti bolognese completely unaware of your aversion to pasta ! You delivered all the information without a single hint of alarm and despair at what lay in front of you ! For that I am truly grateful, what a consummate professional !! Thanks to you we had the most fabulous and unforgettable holiday. Mark and Briony also hold your memory with true fondness as they recognised the BIG KID in you !!
You have left The most amazing family, they will of course miss you very much and so will all your friends ! Lots of love Sian,Julian,Briony and Mark xxx
Dear Aurtheen, Paul and David. We were so shocked to hear of Johns passing while away with Ann and David. You were in our thoughts and spoken about every day. Our sincere condolences to you all.
Through Claire and Dave we had hoped to have a long and happy association with John and Arthureen. Sadly this was not to be. However, the wonderful day we all shared last Friday is testament to the strong legacy that John has left behind and we hope to play a small part in keeping his memory alive as we continue our journey with Claire, Dave, Arthureen, Paul and Jo.
I was saddened to learn of John’s death this week.
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It is with heartfelt sympathy that I write this note as I had known and worked with John for 14 years. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends, always.
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In sorrow and with love,
Rosh Jamal.
I was very shocked when I recently heard the news about John’s death.
John and I worked and frequently lunched together during my seven years at Gillette many years ago. There was a great atmosphere work-wise and socially, which John contributed to enormously through his engaging wit and never-ending stream of ideas. On several occasions after I left, John would invite me for lunch and give me an enthusiastic tour of the latest developments at Gillette
It is very sad that I will never have another opportunity to share a lunch with John – like others I will need to rely on my fond memories. You will be sorely missed, John.
My sympathy goes to Arthureen and all John’s family and friends on this first Christmas day after the loss of a wonderful man. Sincerely, Sharm
Our lives have been turned upside down this week as we have lost somebody who meant the world to us. The only things that have made us feel better have been the wonderful emails, texts, phone calls and cards with messages of how John touched everyone’s lives.
Please use this page to post your comments, memories and stories of John.
John was one of the good guys. He loved his wife. He loved his boys. He loved life. Everything he did, he did with a passion. His sharp wit and quick mind often left us exhausted. Always the first to offer his help. Whatever needed doing – John was up for it. Soon there will be a new little Risk on the scene. How sad that John will never know that special experience of holding his grandchild for the very first time. But I know the Risks. I know there is enough love to go around.
Miss you John. x
Arthureen, I was saddened when I received word of John’s passing. He was a good friend and colleague. John was an individual with a keen and witty mind. He was able to tie these unique and rare traits together in both the social and business worlds. I feel honored to have not only known John as a friend but also to have worked with him at Gillette. During my years of knowing John, I never heard a harsh word spoken about him. This is the highest tribute a person can receive while living on this earth. Needless to say, John will be greatly missed.
Carol and my love go out to you and your sons.
Richard Crane
Fountain Hills, Arizona
I am proud to be able to call John one of my closest friends. I am going to miss our little chats.
I first met John and Authereen when I was 22. I soon found myself wrapped up
in their family which was full of fun and love. John was a vibrant, full of naughtiness and cheeky chap, he made me laugh so much. The day he brought all the girls at our tennis club a red rose each because we had won
our final just showed that he thought about others always. That memory has
stayed with me always. We ran road races together and he was always so
encouraging. A sincere and very special husband, father and friend. We will
miss you John. You will never be forgotton.
Kim
John, an irreplacrable friend.
How we will miss your boundless energy and all round enthusiasm. Always so thoughtful, helpful and entertaining. So quick witted and funny. We feel very privileged to have had the chance of being able to spend so much time in your company.
Still trying to get our heads around it all.
Ian and Denise
What a lovely man I have known for years and Jules only really got to know comparatively recently. As soon as Jules mentioned that kayaking would be his new sport, John was immediately supportive and showed him the way. Always there to help in any way, so kind and gentle, an example to us all. We will miss him hugely now he is at peace in our world.
I met John first time in 1998 as I joined our Gillette management meeting in Germany.
After that we had several meetings together. As I remember sometimes we visited the Saalburg castle built by the Romans and he told me about the Hadrian’s Wall in England.
Next what I remember was a meeting at the Thames River and we had a little boat trip together.
I will miss him especially his speeches with a special kind of English humor.
RIP John.
I first met and played football with John in 1977. He was a brilliant sportsman and above all brought humour to the changing room. I remember one game against Old Albanians (at home) we were being slaughtered 1-0 (Stanbridge was having a blinder for once). One of their players went down with an injury to the face – the sponge was called for (several times). To which John piped up “it’s being repaired!” Hilarious. My condolences and regards to John’s family and close friends, Adrian (Cutters) OIFC
Always enjoyed John’s company; his dry wit and sharp humour brought a smile to my face every time we met. Played football with him many times and his ‘Beckenbauer’ style always made him stand out but I must say that I did get a few sharp comments in my ear a few times when I didn’t exactly carry out his instructions! A sad, early loss of a quality man in all respects. Our thoughts with all the Riskies. Rob & Lesley.
We are all shocked and saddened by John’s passing. Such a kind man with an amazing sense of humour who had us in stitches on many a Saturday afternoon at Cricket. Moreover, John’s love for his family is what we shall remember most and the bursting pride for his boys. Our thoughts are with you all at this very sad time. We will both be honoured to be at the funeral to celebrate John’s life. With much love.. Krish and Lorraine Riminton xxx
Athureen and John were our best friends during our five year stay in GB. John’s humor and kind heart were endless. I’ll always remember our wedding ceremony, when my earring dropped to the floor making a tinkling sound. John quickly quipped, “Dick, couldn’t you afford a better ring setting?” This was one of so many moments of laughter and love shared with special friends. Without doubt, a fitting testament is that John made all his friends laugh and smile. He will be greatly missed by all, not only in GB but worldwide.
Our thoughts and prayers are with Arthureen, Paul, and David during this most difficult time.
With much love and friendship,
Carol and Dick Crane
So sorry to hear. We will miss him. Always friendly faces, looking so happy. lots of love!
Dear Athureen. It is with a deep sense of shock that I heard of John’s sudden death. The pain of you and your family at this unforseen tragedy must be unbearably sore at this time. As one of his many friends around the world, my thoughts are with you.
My memories of John are drawn from his long career at Gillette which I shared for some 20 years. His hallmark in those early days was his infectious humour; a talent that brought him many admirers. It was also a guise though, for an underlying intellect, which would evntually be recognised and take him to the upper echelons of senior management. Even then, his humour would always be to the fore. As a very close friend in those days I was also an admirer of his sporting talents and remember well the fun I had playing with, and against him at football – the Scots vs England. Thanks for the memories, John. You will be greatley missed by your many friends.
Arthureen, I was so shocked and saddened by John’s passing. I will never forget the kindness and friendship both he and you showed me when I joined Gillette all those years ago. His sense of humour and fun were very special and it was impossible to be around him and not have a smile on your face. My thoughts are with you all. Helen
Dear Arthureen, Paul and John,
Like many others, I was shocked and saddened by the news.
John and I were peers and closely aligned for a number of years in our roles at Gillette UK and South Boston.
John always found a way to make difficult challenges seem less difficult…
He loved Gillette the way so many of us did during those glorious years.
John’s humor and ability to promote and strengthen our global allliances made the Atlantic seem so much smaller.
Peace be with you John…….we will remember you, always
Bob Curran – Massachusetts
Arthureen,
I was so sorry to learn of John’s untimely passing. Our paths crossed many times during my (27) years at Gillette, I always found John friendly, patient and helpful with a subtle and dry sense of humour.
You and I played tennis together many times in my early days at Gillette (late ’70′s).
Like me, John was a true Gillette man and I know he will be sadly missed by many. My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.
With kind regards,
Roger.
Roger Grime.
My deep condolances to Arthureen and the boys.
John was in South Africa when I joined Gillette. I worked with him, and then for him on and off over the next 27 years. His wit and humour kept the department going – through difficult times, overdue projects and non-working computers (mainframes as well as PCs). The puns came quickly and unforced – when a member of staff couldn’t make the football match because of a hole in his shoe, John’s immediate remark was “Was that his sole excuse?”
He was one of the Gillette family, and his death comes as a surpise and a shock. I’m sure he will be remembered for a long time. R.I.P.
Roland.
Authereen, this is another message from our family. Tony, my mum, Luke and Max looked at the photos of John and you at my 50th birthday a year ago.
You looked so happy and content, you were such a lucky couple to have spent so many years together happy and fulfilled. God Bless you all. xxxxxxxx
How we will all miss Johns enthusiasm for life and razor sharp wit, he was one in a million and will be sadly missed by so many people .
To all of John’s family and friends.
I played football with John for Wayfarers in the mid-late 1970s and will always remember the friendly welcome that he gave me as I was thrown as a skinny 17 year old among many a football shirt which when worn looked like it was concealing a very large turtle from the Galapagos Islands. And his dry wit. Having not seen him for perhaps in excess of 30 years, it was great to see him again in May at Wayfarers’ 50th anniversary.
I know that John was held in high regard at Wayfarers and it is clear from the postings here that he was an exceptional human being. That he has slipped his moorings so tragically early will leave pain and hurt for so many. May memories of John help to ease the gap he has left.
John Butler
As with all before, I was shocked and saddened by this terrible news. Many happy memories of working (and playing) with John at Gillette from 1979 onwards. He made even the dullest of meetings lively and entertaining, sometimes irreverent – I recall feeling like school kids in the back row of class when John caught a new seam of humour and shared it with his nearest neighbours….. trying to suppress fits of laughter. As well as his sharp humour, which kept everyone on their toes, he kept pushing everyone to see things in a different and better way with a healthy impatience and without bias or self interest [a rare trait].
John made these times more fun, funnier, successful and special. Thoughts are with Arthureen, sons, family and all who feel the sense of loss.
Jim
Dear Arthureen, Paul and David,
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. John was such a lovely man. He was very highly thought of by all the Sextons. I’m grateful that he always made Rich and I feel so welcome at Ottershaw and that he was always so friendly and kind towards everyone. I hope you are all holding up ok at this difficult time. Our thoughts are with you. Michael Sexton
Dear Arthureen,
We only met John a few times, but were both struck by his warmth and sense of fun. He was so game to join in the YMCA dance in S. Africa. A special chap.
Thinking of you at this very sad time. We are sure your family and friends will be the strength you need.
Jayne and Huw (Sue’s sister and brother-in-law)
John was a unique and lovely man – always caring, good humoured and looking for the next exciting challenge – he will be sadly missed. Thinking of you all with lots of love xxxxxx
As one of John’s many cousins (our grandparents had 17 grandchildren) my memories of him obviously go back a long way. John, my brother Keith and I were the eldest of the cousins. So school holidays and weekends saw the three of us together, a ball of some description never far away. I remember in later years telling John that I had taught him everything I knew about football. His immediate response was “that couldn’t have taken very long!”. So typical of John – very quick, very funny and, although the joke was at someone else’s expense, entirely devoid of malice. The whole extended family will miss his company and his humour at future gatherings.
We welcomed Arthureen into our midst when she came from South Africa many years ago. Our hearts go out to her and the boys at this sad time. We will all miss John terribly. Why, because he gave so much of himself to his family and friends and we owe him so much.
Shocked and Saddened by the news . I played many a game of football with John at Old Is. John’s sense of humour was legendry and always looked forward to the away games as John always had a nice comfortable company car that would be guaranteed not to breakdown on the way to the game! He will be sadly missed!
In recent years I only saw John at the Annual Vets match between Old I’s and Nortumberland. Next year’s game will certainly be a lesser occasion with out him!
Marc Curant
RIP John, let’s hope Heaven is ready for your wit!
Arthureen and Family,
Wendy and I were shocked and saddened to hear the dreadful news. Our thoughts are with you all at this incredibly difficult time.
We feel honoured and privileged to have known John and to have counted him as a friend. During the many years I shared with John at Gillette we worked and played hard, laughed and at times nearly cried together and yet I can’t recall a single cross word between us. It is no exaggeration to say that I would not be where I am today without John’s guidance, coaching and support. And, to this day, I can’t look at a mango without thinking of John and smiling (it’s a long story!).
We will miss him so much.
Dear Arthureen and family, so sad to hear about John. He gave me my big break at Gillette and I will never forget him for this although it was a massive legacy to take on. I have missed him since his retirement and will be with you next week.
Linda and I hadn’t known John for long, but during this time he made a big impact on us both.
My abiding memory of John were the two YMCA gigs we performed, one in South Africa, and one, more recently in England together with the dress rehearsal at Sue and Rick’s. Whilst the ladies went off for Tennis, the four of us rehearsed YMCA three times though we were more interested in watching the test cricket! However John, being the consummate professional spent much of the afternoon (rather than skiving with the rest of us) in the garden plugged into his Ipod listening to YMCA and improving his moves!
We will miss you John, a great guy!
Our thoughts are with Arthureen and her family…
It was an honour and a privilege to have known John albeit for a very brief period. His wit and charm were something to aspire to.
John’s ability to handle difficult situations as if they were mere wrinkles in an otherwise perfect day left most people basking in his wake. His black belt 9th dan master’s skill at putting into prose a speech for a simple leaving do was legendary. I am sincerely saddened to hear about the loss of such a great man yet happy to have been one of the luck few who had the opportunity to have known him. REST IN PEACE.
Alkesh
I have so many happy memories of John from my days working with him at Gillette. John taught me so much and was was undoubtedly one of the most influential men in my life and I count myself very fortunate to have know him. I am in Texas so will not be able to attend his funeral but my thoughts and prayers will be with Authureen, Paul, David and the rest of John’s family.
Arthureen, many condolences to you and the family. John was a true Gent and a good mate, will be missed by all. My favorite memory was a league game played in Ealing on the Saturday after we had drawn a Cup Final on the Friday night, it was hard in those days! and as you can imagine we were all a bit shabby. Half way through the second half when the hangovers were really kicking in, John told me to leave a shot. When I looked at him with the ball nestled in the bottom corner he simply said, Sorry saw two balls, chose the wrong one!
Rest in Peace
Roy & Kathy, Dubai
So full of life, passionate about so many things, a source of so much fun and laughter, never ending wit, a great friend- John was a real one off.
We hope St Peter was ready when John arrived with his first heavenly quiz!
So much love and so many thoughts to Arthureen, Paul and David at this terrible time.xxxxx
I had the immense pleasure of playing football with John at OIFC and can only repeat the comments of others. He was always wonderful company and had a wonderfully positive approach to life. He will be sadly missed.
Arthureen, our condolences to you and your family.xx Dolly
It was very sad indeed to hear that John had so unexpectedly passed away and my thoughts are with you at this difficult time
I first met John when Gillette bought Duracell and we came up, carrot-crunchers, from the sticks to meet the new guys. John immediately engaged with us in his friendly, respectful and sensitive way, and through my Isleworth years, he became both professional colleague and personal friend. I so much enjoyed his company: his quick intelligent wit, his daft stories and overall, his generosity of spirit that you couldn’t fail to feel
I’ve so enjoyed meeting up with him latterly for lunches and drinks. John: athlete, humourist, friend.
Was devastated to hear the sad news about John. Played many a game of football with John for OIFC and his presence in the team always made the afternoon more pleasurable whether we won or lost. A true gent with a great sense of humour he will be so very much missed.
My thoughts are very much with his much loved family and friends
Like everyone on here, I was deeply saddened to hear the news about John. I knew John for many years at my time at Gillette and have many happy and memorable memories working with him in our IT dept. He was always a great help to me and I was very fortunate to have known him. John was also a very keen sportsman and was always looking forward to our Wednesday evening’s in which was our Gillette football night where he loved playing and always seemed to be on the winning side due to his great ability. He will be truly missed by all!
John was without a doubt the most graceful player that I ever played alongside back in the old Wayfarer days, and the most liked ! The mould has most certainly been broken and his kind will never be seen again! I am so pleased that I and others attended the reunion in White Waltham only recently on the 11th October, old friends having a great evening, laughing and joking about the old days, and each others antics. Rest in peace John, and thanks for the memories mate. Gary x
Dear Arthureen and family
So sorry to hear the sad news about John, a very respected friend. We enjoyed his sense of humour and relaxed style. He will be greatly missed. Our thoughts are with you.
We were both born in the famously cold winter of 1947.
We were at Isleworth Grammar together.
We then both lined up for the Old I’s through four decades!
John was the most cultured,consistent and fairest player I had the honour to wear the shirt with.
A great sense of humour and a very fine chap indeed.
Totally gutted by news of John’s sudden passing.
My thoughts are with you at this saddest of times.
Am writing this whilst Anths and Suzie are in SA; I am sure that Anths will leave her own message later.
John was a one-off and my life has been immeasurably richer for knowing him. I still can’t believe that he and I will never again valiantly lose on the tennis court against our better halves; that he and I will never again argue about how many religions there are in the world; that I will never again be able to try to add peas to his dinner order; that I will never again laugh at the quickest wit (and worst puns) that I have known. John’s infectious enthusiasm for life and his unfailing willingness to help others has taught me a lot, and I thank him for it.
All of our thoughts, love and best wishes are with Arthurene, Paul and David at the moment.
John probably hung his head many times in our company as he watched us trying to keep up with the puns! He had an almost Goon like (look it up children!) ability to use language in ways that were not intended. When you finally caught up with what he had said, you realised how clever and how fast he was. We variously partied; tennis’d; ran ½ marathons and laughed together. His enthusiasm for life was infectious and we will always remember party games with labels stuck to clothing on front or back that likened you to a film star – but left you clueless as to who you were meant to be! His eclectic love of wood, rivers, 60’s music and so much more was only overshadowed by his love of Arthureen and the boys. The only possible consolation is that he lived life flat out, laughed through life and did so much. We will all miss him. Francis, Kate Hannah and Zac
John was a very special man.
A real Gentleman with great charm and wit. A superb footballer.
I like many had the pleasure of being on the pitch with him at Old I’s and trying to keep up.Always first on the team sheet,first to the ball, first to spot a pass and first out of the changing room…..
He told me he played his first game for Old I’s in 1967….. a playing career spanning 5 decades. What an outstanding achievement amongst so many.
We will all remember John and with a smile.
My thoughts are with you all at this time.
Peter Lang.
John will be missed at Runnymede Runners having been a member for a number of years; not one to train with us every Tuesday and Thursday, but I know that he loved to race in our club colours.
If not racing he could be seen marshalling at races or just helping out at the relays or Staines 10k.
I and the other members will miss him and it has been our pleasure to run with him over the years.
Peter Collins
Chairman
I first met John in 1975 when I turned up as an enthusiastic sixth former to play for the Old I’s. It was immediately clear that John was an exceptional talent on the pitch and a great wit off it.
I remember a training session where one of our number had decided to stand on a couple of bricks whilst stretching, presumably to lengthen the stretch. John immediately decided that this was some new form of altitude training. Needless to say the bricks were never seen again.
More recently I came across him half way round the Cabbage Patch 10. We chatted about old times for a while and then I, as the younger man, decided I should press on and try for a time. As I collapsed over the line in a state of complete disarray John trailed in about 15 seconds behind looking as though he had just started.
He was an exceptional sportsman and one of the funniest people I have had the pleasure of knowing. He will be greatly missed.
My thoughts are with you.
Russ
Without doubt John was the most able and gifted footballer in any team for which I played at the Old I’s. Skilled in using both feet and always wanting to play the game in the right spirit, it was a pleasure to watch him pass and control the ball in every game he played.
He was, however, a most undemonstrative player on the pitch. Whether we won 5-0 or lost by the same margin, his approach and demeanour never varied, apart that is for one occasion on the top pitch.
We had a corner and John stole in at the far post to thump a bullet header into the net. A rarity, unique I think in his performances for the Old I’s. For once he could not contain his enjoyment of the moment, and continued his run for half the length of the pitch, fist raised in triumph to the sky, until he returned to his position at right back, ready to restart the game with his usual, dignified poise.
What a goal! What a player! But above all, what a gentleman.
Paul and I want to send our sincere condolences to both Arthureen and the boys. We were both truly shocked and saddened to hear of Johns passing.
I worked with, John at Gillette for many years. He always embraced a challenge with great humour and determination; whether it was winning our weekly 5-a-side football match, mastering Microsoft Project (and he was one of the very few who did) or migrating mainframes and servers. John never failed to acknowledge, a job well done; and was always so very generous with his own knowledge and experiences.
John was never one to simply sit back and manage projects; he always got involved. This was always recognised and appreciated by the team. He always listened, supported and encouraged us all; and in return he had our respect, admiration and loyalty.
He really was a wonderful man; a team mate to some, a great friend to many, and an inspiration to all.
He will be sadly missed
Paul and Carole Parker
Arthureen, Paul and David
So very shocked and saddened to hear of Johns untimely death. My heartfelt condolences to you.
John was unique, kind,generous and enthusiastic about everything in life and a great friend and colleague, he could lift your spirits in an instant with one of his witty comments.
We shared the occasional pub lunch in our retirement sharing news of our new hobbies. He never changed thank goodness.
God bless
Neville
I can remember the positivity that John used to radiate as he stepped out of his office at Gillette. Hopefully he has left a little of this sprinkled on each of us he touched & left behind. God bless, Ian
So sad to hear news of John’s death. Although only bumped into him 2 or 3 times in last thirty years I remember our happy schooldays together. We started at Isleworth the same day and he sat in the desk behind me. We were always playing football in our break times. I remember winning a tennis doubles tournament with him in the sixth form and with other friends meeting at each others houses and trying to learn how to play guitar. God bless you John.
Dear Arthy, Paul and David
We are so sad to hear of Johns passing. My earliest memory of you and John, when you came out to South Africa and stayed with us in Madeley Road and you bought us a HUGE compendium of games box, it lasted us throughtout our school days and longer.
I also remember when you and John came out to SA for the 1st time with Paul and we went to the Spur and had dinner with Uncle Mick and family. I think Paul was about 2 years old.
You both have done so much for our family, especially mom and dad. We are constantly thinking of you all.
lots and lots of love
Charles, Theresa, Gary, Christopher and Jonathan
Dear family,
I still can’t beleive that John has left us. I know all the kind words can’tmake your pain go away. We are all thinking of you and hope the day comes you will turn to us to help you through this difficult times.My thoughts are with you love Kathy
John was the year below me at IGS, and played as many years for the football club as I have for the rugby club, so we often saw each other in the bar but not on the pitch. However, we both played for the OIAFC vets in April. In old terminology, I played right half and John was right back. I asked John to tell me where I should position myself and his reply was “never more than ten yards from me!” He was real gentlemen with a dry wit, and will be fondly remembered. On behalf of me and OIRFC, our condolences to John’s family. Unfortunately, I shall not be able to attend the funeral. Best Regards, Tony
I was in the year below John at IGS but knew him mainly through the Old I’s. We played cricket together during the 70s when John’s fielding skills were readily apparent and although I played rugby I will always remember John for our frequent short conversations which for some unfathomable reason always seemed to take place in the spartan surroundings of the Old Boys toilets! The conversations always followed the same pattern on a Saturday evening: me – “Do you know any football scores John?” John – “1-1, 2 all, 3-2″ Thanks a lot John for those fond memories.
Dear Arthureen, Paul and David,
We were so shocked and saddened to hear about John. Although, we only saw him at a few social /family events, he always made us laugh with his dry wit and his unique ability to bring laughter to any occasion.
We are sadly unable to be with you on Friday, but our thoughts are with you and all the Riskies.
With our love
Carola,Mark and Holly
I am very sorry to hear about John’s passing.
I played football with him at Old I’s during the 90′s when I had just started playing there. He was a thoroughly nice guy – and you could always tell what a good player he had been in his prime.
Neil Bull
So shocked and saddened by this news. I had the good fortune to skipper John at Old I’s for a season or two late in his career. He was still a terrific footballer and played the game in a real Corinthian spirit. He could still have played at a higher level but dropped down, I think because he wanted to introduce David to the club and play in the same team. He was a pleasure to captain; always there on time and willing to help out with putting up nets etc. Although most of the rest of us were unfit to tie his bootlaces, he was never critical of his teammates. Indeed I never heard him say a bad word about anyone. Needless to say, the reverse is equally true. John was a real gentleman and, as others have written, a most amusing companion.
My thoughts go out to Arthureen, David and Paul.
Jerry Jolly
Dear Arthureen,
Words will not be sufficient – but I feel your pain. You and John are two very special friends. The Risks were always on my ‘hit list’ when I came to visit Anths and I was always disappointed that I couldn’t ever join you in Jeffery’s Bay. Teaching has limited time off!!!??? Be that as it may, the New year’s eve competition of eating dry cream crackers with no liquid to wash them down or wrapping the team in toilet paper – give me many chuckles when I look at the photos. My memories are of fondness, warmth and lots of laughter and I look forward to sharing them with you when I come over again. Take care of yourself during this time and know that you have MANY FRIENDS supporting you and who will care for you when you need it. My thoughts and prayers will be with you, Paul and David on Friday.
God Bless. Cal xx
Like many others on here I met John through the Old I’s Football Club.
A true gent, great footballer with sharp wit!
From time to time when we hear of the sad passing away of somebody it really hits hard and affects so many. This usually proves how popular and well respected that person was.
This is one of those such occasions!
My thoughts are with all the family at this sad time.
It was a pleasure meeting you John.
John was everything you would want in an uncle. Visits to his house meant great hospitality and plenty of fun in the form of murder in the dark and dress the terrorist. We will take away many happy memories of John at the family home.
We will miss him. Joe, Maddie, Charlie, Dan, Stella, Laura xxxxxx
Played my first games @ Old I’s as a 16yr old in the 5th XI with John & my Dad. Watching him glide around the pitch on the right hand side often making players many years his junior look very stupid was a great part of my footballing education. He always had a great touch & an unerring knack of making himself time & space on the ball which is a wonderful gift. A true gentleman of the game on & off the field. An honour to have donned the famous Red jersey with you sir R.I.P.
Thrill of getting kayaks on the car for some of the best days of our lives.
Spread sheets, laminated maps by the score.
The adventure. Smiles, laughs, half sensible chats, even silence.
“I love the first time the kayak hits the water”
“This is just stunning”
“Tranquility like we have never known”
In any slightly dangerous situation we always rely on one another – usually John looking after David.
Except one occasion when John capsized in a fast flowing river. I retrieved his kayak to which John’s response was “thought you would have emptied it first”
“That beer will go down well”
We enjoy the beauty of many rivers, streams and sea.
The biggest challange – kayaking the Thames. Starting at the source in a few inches of water.
Always finishing the day with a fun evening with our lovely support team.
Every paddle is always one of the best paddles.
Always the best day with my best friend.
Dear Arthureen,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have such wonderful memories of working with John.
He was such a great person to be around. John always made me feel welcome. He was always, and I really mean always, quick with a funny comment or insight… his sense of humour was infectious. More importantly he also did not hesitant to give people, or perhaps it was just me, some “good advice”, the advice you did not want to hear, but you really needed to know…
My years in the U.K. were a special time and John was a big part of that.
In one of his few weak moments I even convinced John to let me bowl to him on a makeshift pitch. Unfortunately it only took one unintended American style fastball full toss for John to declare, “That’s enough of that, let’s do something else.” I was one and done as a bowler.
John made every meeting, business trip, or hallway encounter entertaining and fun. I would give a lot for just one more ‘Project Update’ with John.
Bill Looney – Boston
I was so sad to hear of the untimely death of John. He was a staunch Isleworthian and a prominent member of the football club. I send my sincere condolences to his family. Malcolm Brittain
Denise has already posted a comment, but after a few more days trying to get used to idea of not enjoying John’s company again I feel the need to add my own. But where to start ? His remarkably quick wit ? His tremendous enthusiasm for everything ? His neverending willingness to help ? His YMCA starring role ? Not only will I miss him here, but possibly even more so when we return to South Africa, where he was our travel agent, our guide, our IT consultant; I could go on. Given the gap we now have in our lives I cannot even imagine where Arthureen, Paul and David are, but they must know that they have our love and support when they want them. A wonderful guy.
I knew John in the 1970s and early 1980s. A great footballer , fantastic wit and above all a true gent ! John you have left us all with so many great memories … thank you for that ! Our thoughts are with Arthureen and the family at this difficult time. Regards, Bim Hundal
I first played with John in the early 1980’s when he was still a first team player. John was often reluctant to pass the ball to anyone he didn’t think was worthy of a pass. Not a problem in the first team but more so if he was helping out one of the lower sides.
Fortunately, the first time we played together, myself at centre half and John at right back, I won a header early in the game, mainly because the forward was about five foot six and not up for an aerial battle. Unchallenged, I called John’s name and, by pure fluke, the ball landed at his feet. He gave a quick nod and, from that moment on, I was crossed off the list of people not worthy of a pass.
He was always appreciative that in his last few playing seasons, he helped win the Vets Cup under myself and reached a cup semi final under Jerry Jolly so ended his regular football career as it had always been – in style.
He always enthusiastically supported the annual Old Isleworthians versus Northumberland reunion match and slotted in looking like he was still playing regularly, unlike many of us who actually were.
Every day we have looked through the lovely messages written by so many friends and family. I know that Peter will be giving his tribute on friday, so I would like to add a few words myself.
I married into the Risk family 34 years ago, and John was always the same towards me – cheerful, funny, welcoming and full of new ideas.
I will miss him showing me a new book about local history or different woods, or pointing out the stars in an African night sky.
I will miss drinks on the patio, marvelling at his latest wooden creation, and even learning why yew trees were planted in churchyards! I will miss his legendary quizzes, and the party games that he constantly devised and that our children loved.
I will miss his intelligence and wit, his endless enthusiasm, his kindness and generosity, and his pride in his dear family.
Arthureen Paul Jo David and Claire my love to you all xxxxx
Dear Arthureen and family, like everyone we were so saddened to hear about John’s passing. We spent several enjotyable evenings together and it was always a pleasure to be in his company and share in his humour and enthusiasm about almost everything! Our thoughts are with you.
Carol and I were so sorry and shocked to hear the news and our thoughts are with you all.
John and I went back a long time at Gillette. I was a user of his services, a team colleaque, a member of his MIS team, a friend and so much more. Oh so many memories. The social occasions were so special too. Carol remembers the special one in London too.
God Bless.
Played my first game with john in 1978..Mac was captain… John wore the Number 2 shirt with pride, passion and true wit. Dressing room banter, shower room banter and bar talk will remain a part of John’s make u for me. Can still see his close control on the deck, we wont mention his heading ability suffice to say a complete gentleman on and off the pitch and a great friend. I hope they are ready for you up there John, you will make them smile…RIP………………Pez
Very sorry to hear this sad news. I played with John in the late 70?s- great player and as many have said his dressing room wit was legendary. Thoughts and best wishes go to Arthureen and family.
Like everyone else who has posted here, we were truly shocked and extremely saddened by the news of John’s passing. Nearly two weeks later, it is still very, very hard to believe.
I was lucky enough to not only play many times with John for OIFC but also to be in attendance at various family functions over the years because John’s Brother, Peter, is married to my Sister, Trudy (whose beautiful post you can read above).
One of the funniest things I have heard in my life (and it still makes me laugh out loud) was said by John at a gathering at John’s parent’s house in Hounslow West back in about 1977. I had my German pen-friend, “Helma” with my at this particular event and John’s dear Mum Doreen kept calling him “Helmet”.
After she’d called him this a few times, John said: “Will someone please tell Mum to stop calling him ‘Helmet’ or he’ll think she’s taking the pith”.
That is pure comedy brilliance and John was probably the funniest person I’ve ever met – and the best right-back of course.
Arthureen, Paul, David – our thoughts and love are with you at this very sad time. I will see you on Friday xx
It has taken some time to write as I have been to upset and shocked.
I first met John when I was 13 when we all got together every day in the holidays and after school to play football in Beaversfield Park Hounslow West. We had such great times and decided to form a football club in 1961 and we called it Beaversfield Park FC.
After playing lots of friendley games we decided to join a league and were excepted in the West Middx Sunday Football League in the bottom division and under Johns captaincy we rose up the league to the Premier Division and how proud John and all of us were.
John worked tirelessly helping me arrange Wayfarers 50th Anniversary and what a great day it was for him and his brother Peter to play in the match and beat the present side.
I will always remember all the times we had and our reunion down the Bee Hive Pub on the 13th October were John really enjoyed himself.
God rest mate and I will sign off the way you always expected me to.
Yours in sport
Chris
Over the years that I have played for Old I’s, I was not always on the same teamsheet as John. On occasions that this happened, I would walk into the dressing room and await the customary quip. This was always good natured and he could reel off several ribbings of various players before we took to the pitch.
He struck me as someone who lived like to the full, and in that respect I am envious of him and could take a leaf from his book. RIP.
Arthureen our deepest sympathy for all of our loss, John was a heck of a good “Ballie”, we only saw him a few times but he made enough of an impression to never be forgotten.(In a good naughty way) Our thoughts will be with you tomorrow, and we are sorry we won’t be there. All our love Bruce and Trish.
Oh yes we will have a few drinky poos for him tomorrow nite, I am sure he would like that. Lol Bruce and Trish
I only knew John as a colleague in Gillette but from the other tributes it is clear that I saw but a small part of the man.
My abiding memory of JR will be one of seeing him pacing up and down in his office, wearing a look of rapt concentration, while he assembled his thoughts before replying to some mail or other. He always appeared to me to be the most organised and efficient of people, a characteristic I envied.
This passion for organisation became even more evident on an occasion, after I had retired, when our paths crossed outside the Gillette temporary offices in Brentford. I grumbled that, in spite of being retired, I never seemed to have time for the things that interested me – reading, guitar, visiting places of interest, and so on. JR replied that he had addressed this problem by assigning one day per week as a ‘hobby day’. I wasn’t at all surprised.
It is inevitable that it is only at times such as this that one actually realises the mark that another person has made on ones life. I’m sure that John made the most of his Hobby Days. I will bear him in mind as I try to make the most of mine.
My sincere condolences go to John’s family for their sudden and untimely loss.
It is two weeks since Jean and I left England to fly home to Australia. Sadly on the day we flew out John passed away and it was this tragic news that awaited us on our arrival home a few days later. I couldn’t believe it then and I can’t believe it now, but I am truly grateful I was able to spend time with John during my stay in the UK. John organised a truly memorable evening with past team mates of the Wayfarers football team of the 1960′s. It was a wonderful night spent reminiscing good times with great friends. John was one of a kind, a true gentleman and a man who made a difference to all of our lives. Thankyou John.
Jean was deeply touched by the get well card. Our sincere sympathy to Arthureen and all of John’s family and friends, we shall be thinking of you today. Love from Graham and Jean Morrison.
Such sad news – our sincere condolences to Arthureen and the boys from Bill and Steph and old friends at Thistleworth Club. Our thoughts are with you today.
As our lives progress we meet all sorts of characters whose personalities are memorable for many reasons.
There are very few people who have the sparkle and humour of John.
His ability to make you feel at ease, to make you laugh, to look forward to being in his company was remarkable and very rare, because he did it every time you were with him.
Everyone who has written has mentioned humour, wit, fun; this is how we must pay tribute to this lovely man by in some way trying to continue his infectious way of life.
My thoughts and condolences go to all of John’s family and many friends, and to my partner Jill, John’s sister.
John you were such a lovely and loving man. We will miss your sharp wit and infectious positivity. Our fondest memories of you were not only the hilarious Christmas tennis parties you and Arthureen hosted with all the party games,fancy dress and of course the deadly serious tennis competition. But the occasion when you and Arthureen generously offered the use of the place at Plett and insisted on giving us a thorough ‘briefing’ inclusive of maps, pictures and curious sketches re road layouts ! We hosted a dinner of spaghetti bolognese completely unaware of your aversion to pasta ! You delivered all the information without a single hint of alarm and despair at what lay in front of you ! For that I am truly grateful, what a consummate professional !! Thanks to you we had the most fabulous and unforgettable holiday. Mark and Briony also hold your memory with true fondness as they recognised the BIG KID in you !!
You have left The most amazing family, they will of course miss you very much and so will all your friends ! Lots of love Sian,Julian,Briony and Mark xxx
Dear Aurtheen, Paul and David. We were so shocked to hear of Johns passing while away with Ann and David. You were in our thoughts and spoken about every day. Our sincere condolences to you all.
Through Claire and Dave we had hoped to have a long and happy association with John and Arthureen. Sadly this was not to be. However, the wonderful day we all shared last Friday is testament to the strong legacy that John has left behind and we hope to play a small part in keeping his memory alive as we continue our journey with Claire, Dave, Arthureen, Paul and Jo.
I was saddened to learn of John’s death this week.
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It is with heartfelt sympathy that I write this note as I had known and worked with John for 14 years. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends, always.
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In sorrow and with love,
Rosh Jamal.
I was very shocked when I recently heard the news about John’s death.
John and I worked and frequently lunched together during my seven years at Gillette many years ago. There was a great atmosphere work-wise and socially, which John contributed to enormously through his engaging wit and never-ending stream of ideas. On several occasions after I left, John would invite me for lunch and give me an enthusiastic tour of the latest developments at Gillette
It is very sad that I will never have another opportunity to share a lunch with John – like others I will need to rely on my fond memories. You will be sorely missed, John.
My sympathy goes to Arthureen and all John’s family and friends on this first Christmas day after the loss of a wonderful man. Sincerely, Sharm